Which would be better a foher using griswold set with 5/5 light facets or a foher using griffon coh maras soj arachnid foh stick etc..I heard that a foher did 8.1k using griswold and i was wondering if i should get it or not.

The latter choice is much better. Griswold's is only good because you get an avarage dueling char for practically free.

ooo thx a lot i guess ill just get griffon and the other stuff