In regards to the gear on your pally, Gores are usually just what a melee dueler wears. I guess some eth Treks would be ok as a replacement or maybe Shadow Dancers if you have the strength. As far as a helm, Crown of Ages with 2 Ber runes is standard fare. If this just isn't in the price range then a shako would probably be better as it gives life and some Damage Reduction.